Busting Baby Myths: Separating Fact from Fiction for New Parents

April 24th, 2023
Busting Baby Myths: Separating Fact from Fiction for New Parents

It’s natural for new parents to seek information and advice from family and friends, and sometimes, even strangers. But remember, not all advice will prove helpful or accurate. And yes, it can be challenging to distinguish fact from fiction.

As a new parent, particularly when it comes to your newborn, many myths surrounding babies can be a cause for concern.

What’s worse is that these baby myths can sometimes lead to bad decisions that can negatively affect your baby’s health and development.

So, let’s discuss some common myths about your kids to help you out. Remember, these can affect you as a new parent.

Hopefully, you will find valuable tips that allow you to tell fact from fiction. So you, as a new parent, can make the best decisions for your little one.

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Myths About Newborn Feeding

Breastfeeding and nutrition, are some of the more important factors in a baby's development. Still, so many convincing myths and misconceptions about diet and nutrition confuse new parents.

  1. Myth: Feeding your baby on a strict schedule is a must.

Fact: Newborns should be fed when they show signs of hunger. Usually, your baby will give feeding cues to let you know they are hungry around every 1-3 hours.

But, as your little one gets older, feeding may be more frequent.

      2. Myth: Solid food should be started before your little one turns 4 months old.

Fact: The American Academy of Pediatrics strongly suggests that parents wait until their baby is 6 months old to start solid foods. Milk or formula provides all the nutrients your baby needs for the first 6 months of life.

      3. Myth: It’s natural for mothers to breastfeed. After all, it’s easy.

Fact: Yes, breastfeeding is a wonderful experience, but don’t stress too much because every mother still needs support. You need practice and patience if you want to master it.

It is essential that parents seek help from a counselor or doctor if they are experiencing breastfeeding problems. A newborn pediatrician near you can also help point you in the right direction.

Lactation counselors are trained to assist mothers and babies with breastfeeding and provide guidance and support tailored to their individual needs. They can also help with things like latch, positioning, and milk supply.

Rest assured that when you have proper support and practice, you will be able to properly breastfeed your baby.

     4. Myth: Your baby is not gaining weight! You should then switch to milk formula.

Fact: A breastfed baby gains weight at a different rate than formula-fed babies.

No worries though, because as long as your little one's weight gain is within the normal range, and they are otherwise healthy, there's no need to switch to formulas. You should speak to your healthcare provider if you consistently notice that your baby's weight is subpar.


Common Myths About Baby Sleep

You want your baby to get enough sleep, and so do you! But with so many myths about baby sleep, it can be confusing and frustrating to know what to believe. These myths can be misleading for parents and need to be addressed.

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    1. KEEPING your baby awake during the daytime will make them sleep better at night.

Fact: A baby that is awake mostly during the day will likely be cranky and find it hard to sleep at night. So, it’s better if you can create a sleep schedule, but remember to include their naps during the daytime.

     2. Myth: Babies sleep through the night by 3 months old.

Fact: Well, don’t be pressured. Some babies start sleeping through the night at 3 months old, but many still do not. Every baby is different, They will likely develop a sleep pattern at their own pace.

Don’t worry if your baby doesn't sleep through the night by 3 months old. It's normal for babies to wake up at night, usually to feed, especially if they are breastfed.

Waking up to feed at night is necessary. Don’t worry because, as your baby grows, their digestive system will also mature and they will start to sleep for longer stretches, especially at night.

     3. Myth: Let your baby sleep on their tummy to prevent gas.

Fact: Help prevent the risk of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) by letting your baby sleep on their back instead.

You may help your baby relieve gas by lying on their tummy with their head elevated, but this should only be done when they are awake and closely supervised.

Babies who can roll over on their own may be allowed to sleep on their tummy if they like it better. Still, this is not generally recommended.

    4. Myth: The room where your baby sleep should strictly be quiet.

Fact: Nobody wants their baby to be disturbed by loud noises. But, just the same, keeping your baby in a completely quiet room can keep them awake.

Try using some white noise, or gentle background noise, such as a fan or soft music. These can be soothing for babies.

Common Myths About Baby Development & Growth

So many myths circulate around the development and growth of babies. Knowing these myths is a great idea to make better decisions for your baby.

Ensure that your little one reaches their full potential by understanding the truth behind these myths.

  1. Myth: All Babies crawl by 6 months

Fact: Yes, there are babies who start crawling around 6 months old. Still, many don't start until 9 or 10 months old or even a bit later. Your little ones will most likely reach their milestones at their own pace.

**Some infants actually skip the crawling stage entirely, moving right from the sitting position to standing and walking.

     2. Myth: Your baby will remain small if they were born small.

Fact: The majority of small babies catch up on their growth within the first year of life and reach a typical adult height.

One indicator of babies’ growth is their birth weight.** Genetics and nutrition are a few factors that may affect their growth and development.

Monitor the growth of your baby with regular checkups.** We will be happy to help you with this.

When you come in for an appointment, we will check your baby's weight, height, head circumference, and other vital measurements.

    3. Myth: Talking to babies in "baby talk" will help their language development.

Fact: You could find a middle ground by speaking Parentese to your baby. Studies show that it can be beneficial to your baby's development.

    4. Myth: Never expose your baby to germs to keep them healthy.

Fact: Nobody wants their baby to get sick. However, exposure to germs can actually help boost their immune system. Still, ensure to practice basic hygiene such as frequent hand washing.

Overall, don't be afraid to let your baby explore and play in different environments.

Common Myths About Vaccinations

Vaccines protect people from serious illnesses. Unfortunately, myths about these lead to confusion and fear.

Understand vaccine safety. You can then make better decisions about health care, particularly for your little one and the whole family.

  1. Myth: Autism in children is caused by vaccines.

Fact: Numerous scientific studies debunked this belief. **Any evidence did not establish a link between vaccines and autism.

Vaccines are safe and effective by protecting your child from serious diseases that can cause harm and even death. Please talk to us if you have concerns or worries regarding these vaccines and their safety.

     2. Myth: Natural immunity is way better than immunity from vaccines.

Fact: For many people, getting a disease and developing natural immunity can provide protection. What they don’t realize is that it also puts your child at risk of serious complications.

Vaccines can provide immunity without the risks associated with getting the disease, making them safe and effective for your baby.

    3. Myth: Dangerous ingredients, like mercury and aluminum, are found in vaccines.

Fact: Yes, vaccines may contain small amounts of ingredients to help them work properly. But experts thoroughly test these ingredients for safety. Plus, these ingredients have been used for decades with no evidence of harm.

   4. Myth: Vaccines overload the immune system of babies.

Fact: No worries, your little one can handle the antigens in vaccines. These are even in less quantities compared to the number of antigens your baby encounters daily.

    5. Myth: The diseases vaccines prevent are not a threat anymore.

Fact: Yes, there are certain diseases that are now less common due to vaccination - but they still exist. These can cause outbreaks if vaccination rates decrease.

We encourage parents to have their kids vaccinated. It is necessary to protect individuals, and our communities, from vaccine-preventable diseases.

Common Myths Surrounding Postpartum Care

A part of your new life as a mom is taking care of your body, your body that just delivered a tiny human being. You can recover faster if you know a thing or two about postpartum care.

  1. Myth: Getting back your pre-pregnancy body immediately after giving birth is easy.

Fact: Be gentle with yourself. It takes time for your body to recover after childbirth. Certain symptoms, such as bleeding, soreness, and fatigue, may last for several weeks.

Give your body time to heal, and avoid pushing yourself too hard.

    2. Myth: Postpartum depression - it’s not real.

Fact: Many new moms, though they may not realize it, experience postpartum depression. Symptoms like extreme sadness, anxiety, or difficulty sleeping are often neglected.** You may need to seek help.

   3. Myth: Doing everything on your own is what moms do.

Fact: It’s normal to accept help from your family and friends. Ask for some assistance in caring for your baby, not to mention household tasks such as cooking and cleaning.

And, take time for self-care too!

    4. Myth: Becoming sexually active right after giving birth is normal.

Fact: Wait first until your body has fully healed. This means having sex may need to wait for several weeks or even months.

Prioritize your physical and mental health during postpartum. Seek proper help if you experience difficulties. **We are just here to provide guidance and support to help you navigate this important journey.

Finding Reliable Information

The difference between sources that you should believe in and those you should not is sometimes so subtle.

Parents wanting suitable information about child-caring can turn to many sources, from the advice of pediatricians to online forums and parenting websites. Fortunately, you can:

  1. First, research the source of information.
  2. Next, verify its accuracy with other sources, 
  3. And lastly, evaluate its relevance for your purpose. 

With these, you will find reliable sources of information on any topic, not just parenting. When you are aware of common baby myths, you are more likely assured your little one is safe and healthy!

Final Thoughts: Arm Yourself

For a new parent, knowing what is true, and what is false, may be difficult, particularly when it comes to raising a baby. With much information at your perusal, separating fact from fiction is indeed difficult!

So, arm yourself with the right resources. By busting common myths around parenting and caring for a baby, your little one will get the best start in life possible.